Dear one,
Setting boundaries is an essential part of self-care. Boundaries help to establish limits and define what is acceptable and what is not. When we set boundaries, we communicate our needs and preferences clearly, and we prevent ourselves from being taken advantage of or overburdened.
The first step in setting boundaries is to identify your needs and priorities. This can be done by taking the time to reflect on what is important to you, what you value, and what you need to feel healthy and happy. Once you have a clear understanding of your needs and priorities, you can begin to communicate them to others and set boundaries accordingly.
It’s important to be assertive and firm when setting boundaries, but also to be respectful and understanding of others’ needs and feelings. Setting boundaries can involve saying “no” to things that don’t serve you or asking for help when you need it. It can also involve creating physical or emotional space between yourself and others or limiting the amount of time or energy you devote to certain activities or people.
Remember that setting boundaries is not a one-time event; it is an ongoing process that requires practice and self-awareness. It’s important to regularly check in with yourself and evaluate whether your boundaries are serving you and to adjust them as needed. By setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, you can cultivate a greater sense of self-respect, self-care, and well-being.
Finally, stop feeling guilty about setting boundaries for your own care. You do not need to leave an open seat at the table for those who disrespect or mistreat you.
Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.
Love,
