“Worry more about your character than your reputation. Character is what you are, reputation merely what others think you are.”John Wooden
Stop worrying so much about what others think of you. In the long run, your character is what will remain with you. People who focus on their character don’t have to worry about their reputation because there won’t be any fuel to add to the negative reputation fire.
Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.