Dear one,
Strength is often associated with physicality and aggression, but true strength goes beyond the superficial. Strength transcends toxic masculinity, which promotes harmful stereotypes and behaviors. In fact, strength can be displayed in more nuanced and compassionate ways, and sometimes the strongest person is the one who chooses not to engage in a fight.
Showing strength without toxic masculinity means having the self-assurance to reject violence and aggression as the only means of asserting dominance. It involves embracing empathy, emotional intelligence, and the ability to resolve conflicts through peaceful communication. Rather than resorting to physical confrontation, a person who exhibits this kind of strength recognizes the power of understanding, compromise, and respect.
Choosing not to fight back doesn’t imply weakness; it requires immense courage and self-control. It takes strength to rise above the impulse for retaliation and instead respond with patience and understanding. This type of strength is rooted in self-confidence, self-awareness, and the ability to prioritize the well-being of oneself and others.
By demonstrating strength without toxic masculinity, individuals can redefine societal notions of what it means to be strong. They become role models, challenging the prevailing narrative that equates strength solely with dominance and aggression. Ultimately, true strength lies in one’s ability to foster positive relationships, resolve conflicts peacefully, and uplift others without resorting to harmful behaviors.
Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.
Love,
