You don’t have to fit their mold. You aren’t like them and you don’t need to be. The only person you need to be is who you are. If you’re “too much” or not enough for them, then they’re not your people.
You have nothing to prove to live your life, so don’t waste any of it trying to live up to someone else’s ideas and expectations. If you want to be better than someone else, start with the person you were yesterday.
Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.